Blissful

"How do we able to enjoy a blissful life?" I think this is the question who may ask ourselves always. However, no many can give an exact answer or even perform in their ordinary life.

Of course, is hard to put an objective answer on everyone and tell them what is bliss, because human do pursuit different objective. Someone wish to earn as much as they can, other may enjoy the time with friends and family, some people think that helping people with their strength is the most blissful matter.

No matter what is the answer, i think the most important element for blissful is love. Without it, no matter how much u earn, or even u have the world, but u are still poorer as compare to the people with love from the other.

Therefore, we should think how we do love our friends and family, or even ur spouse and the society. Sometimes, just do something on behalf for them, example like cooking or even put ur hand on housework, it does strengthen the relationship through appreciation toward each other effort.

With the love u pay, u will gain back their concern or even more then what u can imagine. Our society does need more concern and love, as compare to economy recovery. We do have money in hand, but we might the too selfish to help the poor.

Hope we do take care more on the other as our ability or influences is getting larger as well as the society can enjoy the bliss and blessed, wish peaceful fall on us as long as possible. However, those things wouldn't fall for free, but need us to work on it.

Immature Democracy

I was in my office in the early morning, and phone was ringing. Therefore, i picked up the phone.

Then, another side came up the voice and was asking for my boss's schedule, Dato Wee Kah Xiong and she said she want to meet him.

I told her that i have no idea about that, and i asked what i can assist in state of giving her those contact.

However, she talked in frustrated manner and say that Dato should meet her regarding her son's JPA scholarship appealing matter.

I told her that we are doing appealing process, and ask her to submit according to the progress. However, she didn't listen to my opinion and saying that we cant make anything happen and MCA is useless, and shout out she will not vote MCA for the next election.

In fact, i was wondering how many voter has the same quality as the woman i met today if the voting behaviour just related short cut to gain national resources, Then shall be no doubt why the people say those money politic and corruption can be efficient in those by election (buy election).

It is just because we have too many voters just care about the money in front of them, but not vote for the party which is good for the country and mechanism.

Therefore, the education in Malaysia is really important, if we vote just because how much the resources you can get on, but not base on the morality and public policies, the country could't be changed.

Malaysian, please think bigger and farer, vote is not just base on your personal interest, but is about ur next generation and national. Think before you vote, but not base on the irrational or selfish reason.

So call "Intellectual "

Quite a number of people call themselves as intellectual or scholar, assume themselve to speak at the moral side and society. These are the person so call"intellectual".

But, what the the term scholar means? And what is the fucntion of them in out society? Due to my understanding, scholar is kind of people who study a lot and analyse anything through theory and enlighten the other or even exchange opinion which other rationally without (or less) emotionally.

Nevertheless, I could find there are lots of so call scholar think themselves are with perfect moral and critic the politician which they don't like without much rationality.

I m sorry to say i am quite sad to hear that because the scholars on nowadays are really different as compare. Words and theories used by just to shoot someone down through articles on media which base on their personal agenda.

I hate these type of people is embarrassing and humiliate the word "intellectual". Hope they know and find the proper way to express their opinion with their human rationality.

Therefore, dont always believe those who called themselves as scholar or intellectual, they might just the one who are irrational with the perfect and knowledgeable outlook.

孤寂

从我呱呱落地开始，我开始依赖我的父母。上了学校，直到大学，就开始忽略家庭，往朋友堆里去。谈恋爱时，常常和女朋友腻在一起。所以我很少有机自己和自己想出。但是，从去年圣诞节前一个星期开始，我恢复了单身。这样的一个时候，我确实也开始思考单身应该可以如何过？

首先，单身要面对的就是自己。以前都把心思放在别人身上。但是现在要收回来面对自己。到底应该如何和自己相处，并且不会感到寂寞呢？最重要的是，自己做的任何事情，是为了自己的理念和想法去完成。当自己能执行和完成自己的想法，其实是非常开心的一件事情。甚至忘记了什么是寂寞，我只知道我做的每一件事情，每一步都会把自己推进一些。

不过，当自己单身一人的时候，在人多的地方，或者是看到情侣满街的时候，总会想到为什么我的身边没有人和我牵手，拥抱。但是，往另外一个角度去想，再看着别人的幸福，就如同看到电影的欢喜场面一样。这个时候的你，绝对会为他人感到高兴，并且祝福他们的美丽的故事会延续下去。如此一来，心态将会是充满阳光和乐观。以吸引力法则而言，必然会招来更多的好事在你身上发生。

明荣以这几个月走过来的心得和大家分享，希望可以帮助大家改变对待生活和自己的态度。

哭过就好了

是不是什么事情，只要伤过，痛过，哭过，我们就学会了更坚强，更有经验的去面对这一切一切现实的残酷。

可能我们会更勇敢的面对，但是还是一样会伤，会痛，只不过我们懂得了新的疗伤方式，让我们比以前更快的站起来，恢复状态。这就是所谓的越挫越勇。但是同样的事情，有者也会选择逃避。就好像我们知道皮肤碰到沸腾的热水会痛，我们会尽量选者不碰，以减少痛楚。这就是所谓的逃避。

不管是面对或者逃避，我们总是需要生活。只是希望大家能了解，就因为伤痛，当我们的得到成果是就会非常珍惜。就因为伤痛，我们会尽一切最大的能力，去避免下一次会痛，从而奋发图强。也因为伤痛，我们会有同理心去了解其他不辛的人到底有多么惨痛。

我们的不辛，真的哭过就好了。别人的不辛，就算哭了，亲人不会回来，肚子也不会饱。

与他们相比，我们的痛，是多么的渺小。。。。。。。