台湾游记（1）

距离我上一次去国外旅行，已经是一年半前的事情了。而在这中间一直不断听到同事们，朋友们去台湾旅游回来后的感言，都羡慕不已。而在去年终于有机会等到了亚航AIRASIA的展销，和女朋友，以及她的中学同学共15人一起订购去台湾的机票。有这样的机会，实在让我雀跃不已。

从去年的8月订购机票开始一直倒数，这中间也多亏了依盈一直努力的为我们寻找及安排台湾的行程，住宿和交通，让我们省下了不少烦心的动作，轻松地享受旅游行程。而时间过得非常快，转眼间就到了旅游季节。终于等到了4月6日，可以上飞机的这一天。

从马来西亚吉隆坡到台湾桃园国际机场大约4个小时30分钟左右。到了机场，除了拿行李还有登记以外，第一件事情就是去台湾旅游局柜台领取“宝贝机”。其实宝贝机是在我们来台湾大约一个月前作出申请的，并完全免费，里面的Sim Card有100元台币，供我们通讯用途，其实去了7天大家都把宝贝机的余额用得七七八八，但是中间不少的通讯工作真的非他不可，不然用马来西亚的电话线打出去，月尾电话费一定是涨到皮包出血。

不久后，先前安排好的司机魏大哥和张大哥就到机场接我们，我们上了车后就直奔逢甲（台中）。当然，在路上我们还是需要解决肚子打鼓的问题，所以就在半路到了一间烧鸡鸭店享用午餐。虽然名字是烧鸡鸭，但是其实还有其他种类的菜肴，好像烧排骨，猪排等等，然后有不止有烧鸡鸭猪，还可以选择4钟配菜，老板娘还送我们每人一罐乳酸菌饮品。大致的价钱是从60-70台币不等。不但如此，还有很好喝的味增汤供应，加上老板娘热情招待，让我觉得这样普通的一餐却吃得很开心。

吃完后，我们15人就浩浩荡荡的出发到逢甲。其实大家（尤其是女生)最主要的目的是杀到逢甲夜市去血拼（绝对是用荷包的血来拼的）到了逢甲，大家就到名宿参观。说真的，这是我人生第一次看到这样美的民宿(因为暂时我还找不到漂亮的马来西亚的民宿），房间还有主题如簧猫咪，蓝海豚，粉红熊等。其实这就好象我们幼稚园的时候老师为我们分组取得名字一样。但是房间里面的装潢却真的有符合主题，如蓝海豚就真的是有蓝海豚的娃娃在床上，这些可爱的装潢让我们惊叹不已。

当然惊叹完毕之后，就是女生去逢甲夜市搏杀的时候。我们一路在逢甲夜市里吃了不著名食品，如臭豆腐，黄金砖（面粉皮+沙拉酱+花枝Sotong），最终点必吃的重点好戏就是逢甲夜市的宝芝琳大肠包小肠（大肠是糯米，小肠是猪场包香肠）。台湾的食品要知道好不好吃其实就在于看哪一档的队伍很长（这也是台湾制造多人购买效应的方法），所以我和我的女朋友秋琪就往人多的地方钻。轮到我们的时候，最好吃的黑胡椒味却卖完了，所以我和女朋友就买了一份蒜味和一份辣味。虽然如此，但是却还是很好吃，完全可以刺激我们的味蕾。从来没有吃过那么好吃的小吃。就因为外边的炸糯米和软香肠一次吃下去实在太有口感了，加上其他的香料配搭实在让我觉得非比寻肠，回味无穷。

当然除了小吃以外，秋琪也不忘了此行的目的-扫货。所以就光顾了不少店面。买下了1条牛仔裤，1条牛仔裙，还有一些衣物。但是算算看看，一天就花了大约马币台币1000多买衣物，让我觉得有点担心接下来的旅费不够(但是到最后才知道这个担心实在太多余了)。

这就是台湾旅游的第一天。

Blissful

"How do we able to enjoy a blissful life?" I think this is the question who may ask ourselves always. However, no many can give an exact answer or even perform in their ordinary life.

Of course, is hard to put an objective answer on everyone and tell them what is bliss, because human do pursuit different objective. Someone wish to earn as much as they can, other may enjoy the time with friends and family, some people think that helping people with their strength is the most blissful matter.

No matter what is the answer, i think the most important element for blissful is love. Without it, no matter how much u earn, or even u have the world, but u are still poorer as compare to the people with love from the other.

Therefore, we should think how we do love our friends and family, or even ur spouse and the society. Sometimes, just do something on behalf for them, example like cooking or even put ur hand on housework, it does strengthen the relationship through appreciation toward each other effort.

With the love u pay, u will gain back their concern or even more then what u can imagine. Our society does need more concern and love, as compare to economy recovery. We do have money in hand, but we might the too selfish to help the poor.

Hope we do take care more on the other as our ability or influences is getting larger as well as the society can enjoy the bliss and blessed, wish peaceful fall on us as long as possible. However, those things wouldn't fall for free, but need us to work on it.

Immature Democracy

I was in my office in the early morning, and phone was ringing. Therefore, i picked up the phone.

Then, another side came up the voice and was asking for my boss's schedule, Dato Wee Kah Xiong and she said she want to meet him.

I told her that i have no idea about that, and i asked what i can assist in state of giving her those contact.

However, she talked in frustrated manner and say that Dato should meet her regarding her son's JPA scholarship appealing matter.

I told her that we are doing appealing process, and ask her to submit according to the progress. However, she didn't listen to my opinion and saying that we cant make anything happen and MCA is useless, and shout out she will not vote MCA for the next election.

In fact, i was wondering how many voter has the same quality as the woman i met today if the voting behaviour just related short cut to gain national resources, Then shall be no doubt why the people say those money politic and corruption can be efficient in those by election (buy election).

It is just because we have too many voters just care about the money in front of them, but not vote for the party which is good for the country and mechanism.

Therefore, the education in Malaysia is really important, if we vote just because how much the resources you can get on, but not base on the morality and public policies, the country could't be changed.

Malaysian, please think bigger and farer, vote is not just base on your personal interest, but is about ur next generation and national. Think before you vote, but not base on the irrational or selfish reason.

So call "Intellectual "

Quite a number of people call themselves as intellectual or scholar, assume themselve to speak at the moral side and society. These are the person so call"intellectual".

But, what the the term scholar means? And what is the fucntion of them in out society? Due to my understanding, scholar is kind of people who study a lot and analyse anything through theory and enlighten the other or even exchange opinion which other rationally without (or less) emotionally.

Nevertheless, I could find there are lots of so call scholar think themselves are with perfect moral and critic the politician which they don't like without much rationality.

I m sorry to say i am quite sad to hear that because the scholars on nowadays are really different as compare. Words and theories used by just to shoot someone down through articles on media which base on their personal agenda.

I hate these type of people is embarrassing and humiliate the word "intellectual". Hope they know and find the proper way to express their opinion with their human rationality.

Therefore, dont always believe those who called themselves as scholar or intellectual, they might just the one who are irrational with the perfect and knowledgeable outlook.

孤寂

从我呱呱落地开始，我开始依赖我的父母。上了学校，直到大学，就开始忽略家庭，往朋友堆里去。谈恋爱时，常常和女朋友腻在一起。所以我很少有机自己和自己想出。但是，从去年圣诞节前一个星期开始，我恢复了单身。这样的一个时候，我确实也开始思考单身应该可以如何过？

首先，单身要面对的就是自己。以前都把心思放在别人身上。但是现在要收回来面对自己。到底应该如何和自己相处，并且不会感到寂寞呢？最重要的是，自己做的任何事情，是为了自己的理念和想法去完成。当自己能执行和完成自己的想法，其实是非常开心的一件事情。甚至忘记了什么是寂寞，我只知道我做的每一件事情，每一步都会把自己推进一些。

不过，当自己单身一人的时候，在人多的地方，或者是看到情侣满街的时候，总会想到为什么我的身边没有人和我牵手，拥抱。但是，往另外一个角度去想，再看着别人的幸福，就如同看到电影的欢喜场面一样。这个时候的你，绝对会为他人感到高兴，并且祝福他们的美丽的故事会延续下去。如此一来，心态将会是充满阳光和乐观。以吸引力法则而言，必然会招来更多的好事在你身上发生。

明荣以这几个月走过来的心得和大家分享，希望可以帮助大家改变对待生活和自己的态度。

哭过就好了

是不是什么事情，只要伤过，痛过，哭过，我们就学会了更坚强，更有经验的去面对这一切一切现实的残酷。

可能我们会更勇敢的面对，但是还是一样会伤，会痛，只不过我们懂得了新的疗伤方式，让我们比以前更快的站起来，恢复状态。这就是所谓的越挫越勇。但是同样的事情，有者也会选择逃避。就好像我们知道皮肤碰到沸腾的热水会痛，我们会尽量选者不碰，以减少痛楚。这就是所谓的逃避。

不管是面对或者逃避，我们总是需要生活。只是希望大家能了解，就因为伤痛，当我们的得到成果是就会非常珍惜。就因为伤痛，我们会尽一切最大的能力，去避免下一次会痛，从而奋发图强。也因为伤痛，我们会有同理心去了解其他不辛的人到底有多么惨痛。

我们的不辛，真的哭过就好了。别人的不辛，就算哭了，亲人不会回来，肚子也不会饱。

与他们相比，我们的痛，是多么的渺小。。。。。。。

北京

中国北京，时值汉朝，称之为北平，在东汉割据时期，是公孙赞的政治中心。而其被重视的时代在于明朝靖康之难以后，当时的明成祖为了巩固自己的势力以及方便防守北方的蒙古，才迁都到北京。而在这起起伏伏的400余年，中国虽然换了朝代，但是其首都却还是在北京。（除了民国时期迁都至南京）。

我于山一个星期到北京游玩，虽然我不断地从朋友口中听说北京有多么的不同，但是只凭想象却不能让我全然知道他是什么样子的。然而，当我到了北京时，我最关注的是他的交通状况，人群流动，人文素养，房地规划，经济以及商业手法，因为我确实是想看看到底共产党如何管理和规划首都的。

结果，出乎意料的让我发现，原来北京确实是非常的进步的，城市规划绝对比马来西亚好上百倍。为什么那么说呢？你可以想象北京的人口差不多有3千多万，换句话说就是比马来西亚的人口还多，但是北京却只比吉隆坡大6倍，如何在这样拥挤的城市供应同等数量的工作，公路和房地产呢？很对不起的说一句，我们没有很好的城市规划，区区的几百万人就可以把我们吉隆坡的交通搞得水泄不通（就是塞到连水都不能过）。但是我国的摩多骑士应该感谢政府，如果没有这样的状况，你们怎样可以训练“塞车缝特技”呢？（就是塞在车与车之间的缝行车的功夫）

还有，吉隆坡当然有其可取之处啦，就是“垃圾分类”，别误会。我们的分类可是随地都可以发生的。就是把污水和固体垃圾丢到水沟，污水就会随着水沟溜走，固体垃圾则会留下，厉害吧！
我们终会说中国人实在没有什么道德素养，但是从以前随地吐痰到现在大多数人吐在垃圾桶里，总算进步了许多。吉隆坡人却非常乐于给“工作”于清道夫，好让他们不会被炒鱿鱼。那本人也代表吉隆坡清道夫向随地丢垃圾的人献上万分的谢意。

当我们已经习以为常的时候，不进步的时候，别人总会超越我们的。如今，就连以前厕所没有们的中国赶上头来了，还是大大抛离了我们。学如逆水，不仅则退。我们的人文素养和管理能力是要保持原地呢？还是向世界看齐呢？

愿与大家共勉之