小马车的故事

在现代社会中，有一辆小马车。说起来这个小马车其实是大有来头。。。。。。

话说在几年前，共田帝组织者一辆小马车，为的就是让小马车往西方的一座城市，名为圈敏纵声血西的城市去，好让都城的人民可以和西方城市的人建立联系。就因为那一座城市的文化水平非常高，所以共田帝想要想那一座城市取经。

而共田帝也非常支持小马车的行程，除了帮忙组织以外，还招夫（马夫）买马，当然还包括给予相当数量的盘川，以供应小马车的一些费用。因此，小马车万事俱备，并顺利上路。

不知不觉已过了几年，共田帝已经退休，并把帝位传给现在的皇帝，名为公羽帝（这个名字确实比较好听）。公羽帝并没有停止对小马车的任何支持，相反地，他还是尊重共田帝遗留下来的小马车。但是，公羽帝也有非常多的政务需要处理，所以也没有太关注小马车的进程。然而，目前公羽帝对厨艺也相当有兴趣，所以现在忙着炒菜。

话说回来小马车的状况，小马车确实在之前有3匹老马，一个正车夫以及副车夫。然而，今天的小马车，2匹老马已被丞相召回朝廷，而目前的小马车是由1匹老马，2匹新马和1匹小马拉着，而正车夫和副车夫还是一样的人。每一匹马都有他们的名字，那一匹老马名叫东马，2匹新马一个叫龙马，一个叫木马，而小马则叫兵马。

按照先帝的意思，小马车确实是应该往西方的圈敏纵声血西的方向去的。但是在目前在路途上，因为正马夫在路上遇到了同姓先生。其实同姓先生非常支持小马车的形成，也非常愿意和小马车合作，不过他和正马夫正在讨论小马车是否可以先往他的家乡 - 汗摸穴烫一趟。同姓先生说明汗摸穴烫里的黑土可以帮助我国人民提高文化素质的，只要大家何以用多使用黑土，就可以了。正马夫听了后，并且使用黑土后，果真非常有效，结果就相信了同姓先生的话。

但是，要往汗摸穴烫走，就必须往西南方走，当中的路程是多了一点，但是为了人民，大家都觉得这辛苦是值得的。但是，当小马车越往西南方走的时候，就觉得非常不妥。。。。。

不妥的故事有非常多，上个月小马经过了贵妇镇，而当中有一尾潘贵妇，是同姓先生的弟子。而在贵妇镇的贵妇有一个特色，就是非常爱出名。而潘贵妇在同姓先生的指导下，黑土功更是大有长进。当小马车经过贵妇镇时，同姓先生就建议让潘贵妇把黑土功展示给大家看，所以就让潘贵妇搭上了小马车。

车上就这样多了一个人，4匹马开始还觉得ok，但是潘贵妇在要去各乡镇表演的途中，不是指错路，就是对马车和马匹要求多多，当然用在旅途的盘川也开始多了。潘贵妇作出诸多要求后，马匹已经有点累了，同姓先生看到了，也有样学样，对马匹开始要求，而且还要求马匹可以完全了解他的意思，说一就能够知道第十步怎样做。而该对马匹作出指挥的马夫，也只是对同姓学生和潘贵妇的动作唯唯诺诺，唯命是从。虽然副马夫也看不过去，和马夫先生表达了意见，却没有反应。在这样的情况，也唯有指挥马匹照潘贵妇和同姓先生的意思去做。

突然间，皇帝想要在炒菜时看小马车目前的情况如何了，所以就飞鸽传书要求马夫报告形程。在这个时候，马夫真的非常担心皇帝知道小马车用了太多的资源在黑土上，会对他进行责备。如果，让皇帝知道小马车目前正在往西南方前进，而且离目的地越来越远，皇帝不宰了他才怪！

在这种十万火急的时候，马夫唯有向皇帝报告小马车其实已经在牛转你进的地方努力了，而牛转你进其实离目的地不远了。。。。。。。

对于这一件事情，木马相当生气，因为他觉得这样做其实只是向皇帝交功课，但是真正的目的就是要到达同姓先生的目的地，或者是马夫的目的地。。。。。。这样子来利用朝廷的白银和用心，确实让人民有些心疼。

其实4匹马在这个时期已经很累了。。。。。，而小马车 目前正往着“黑土音疏象”城市进行。但是潘贵妇将会如何摆贵妇样子，而同姓先生又如何可以代马夫命令马匹呢？下回继续须有分晓。。。。。。。

Pain

We are the strange creature in the world, because we always have feeling, no matter, what you see, hear, touch, taste or think, it may cause feeling happen in your heart.

Just like relationship, the first time when you get into it, you feel the feeling that you havent felt before, it is sweet and happy. If you have any incident or accident exist,what i mean is break up with your first love. It caused you feel the extraordinary pain. Just because it is the first time you feel it.

When things come into second, the damaged could be less a bit, because you might counter it a bit through your experience, and the other reason is you get use to the feeling, which alr been prepared, which doesnt feel as pain as the first.

Therefore, the more pain we gain, the less pain we deserve. So if the pain the coming, just let it be. What i can do, i will still do my best. But when the fate prove to me that cant be avoid, then just let me feel it. The damage it cause might be less.

All the best ya, the more pain i gain, might lead me to become stronger. It happen once before.
And what i said has been proven by myself.

Tsunami

Just finish the movie tsunami with my dearest.

After the movie, I was thinking that why the earth be so cruel to human being? At last, I get the answer. We are cruel to the earth as well.

Just because most of the human are persue the greatest profit, therefore, we exploit each other as much as possible, and we are exploiting our mother earth the most.

Just because we want more colour paper which can exchange more material, human used the poor people whole life and time to work them to fullfill their basic living requirement.

Do the colour papers can be eaten when u are hungry, or thirsty? Or save ur life when typoon and tsunami comes? If not, then why we are persuit it blindly?

Just because we want more crude oil, we used crude oil, other natural resources to cause mass destruction to other country. 911 happen once in US, and more then 5000 people death. But 911 happen everyday during the Iraq war. We didnt notice because most of the media were not coveraging........

God had brushed the human sin once at thousand years ago, Ark was built for the only kind family in the world.

And Now, will the God directed another tsunami again? All depend on human who are exploting your same kind and mother earth...............

Inspiring Idea

Since I start my new job in MCA, I actually i have more time to do my reading.
There are numbers of books in my bookcase, my office table which can float me up.....
Therefore, i have made my precious time to read more, and i found what i wish to in a book.

The book is talking about social business and mostly critic the world poverty situation. The world 20 % population has control over 80% of world resources, and the rest just only have 20%. And then billions of people has live less then 1 dollar a day while even a milk cow in US can get 2 dollars a day. It is means that people are less valueble as compare to a cow........

Therefore, the author analyse this happen is because most of the human believe the theory of capatalism and liberal by Adam Smith. Human being is to presue the greatest profit. Thus, the capitalist try to get more profit by exploit worker especially the citizen at developing country.

However, he contradict the idea of persue greatest profit is not the mindset for every single human in the world. He belive there are some human being are excepted from the theory example Bill Gate and Buffer who donated most of their property for charity usage.

And he suggest those money should be used to create social business which can sustain the company itself and also benefit the poor people through acheiving it social objective.

The author actually have been runing microcredit business in Bangladesh for 30 years successfully. He has helped more then million of poor family and some of them has escape from the poverty life. Beside giving loan, the bank trains and educates those loaner to run their own business to gain profit. 99%percent has return their loan to the bank, it proved that the poor will pay back the loan when they are able to..........

At 2007, he coperate with the world biggest dairy company (Dannone) to produce nutricient food to poor children who cant get sufficient nutri in their daily food. The factory has successfully produce vogurt to those poor children. Moreover, it also produce more vacancy to the local in order to enhence their income......

There are really a good idea which inspire me to look from different perception toward business world. Finally i understand that business is not just a cool and cruel machine about profit and exploit. It can be a warm dimension to spread love to all the people all over the world.

Thks to the book "THE WORLD WITHOUT POVERTY" by Yunas, who rewarded the peace Nobel prize on 2007.

To be Or Not To Be part 2/2

Since the paradox happen, between to be or not to be, i really have no idea what and how my friend is going to do.

If he choice to continue, for sure he have to face a lots of forseen and unforseen problems. Including persuade the girl's parents, brother and sister to accept him. Of course, the best to way to go is become a billionaire in the fastest speed. (is time to buy3D, ToTo, or go Genting to find Uncle Lim)
Then definitely the girl mother will sell her daughter to my friend..........

However, i really cant imagine how can he face her parents after that, when his lover obey her parents so much without any principle at all. (I think her parents might prepare a contract to list down how much they need and ask my friend to sign, without any objective from their daughter.)

Sorry to say that my friend really cant accept these imagined picture. But he really dont know what he should do........., he ask me to find a good guy for her. I dont think i will put those good guy to face her parents unless those millionaire who is over 70 and might be in graveyard soon. (these really fit into the requirement of her parent, they can get the heritage soon after the old man die.)

My fellow friend, i really advise that you should try to give a chance on yourself to escape from her as soon as possible. I know is really hard to do, since you had gone over 4 years with her. Please believe that while you let go, it is the best option that you are having now.

Time can really change many things especially feeling. I might not have the hard feeling like you, but i had a terrible suffering experience before, i know how pain it can be. The experiences that you had is full with sweet and bitter moment, but when u turn back and look from the future, this is just another matter in your journey. If we just stand on a piece of land where both of you are suffering, why dont my just fly to your destination and leave her to go on her way. No worry, her mother for sure will care for her. No matter how the other force or influence her, is her choice to follow or object, is useless when you wish to pull her out from her family, unless her is willing to.............

Fellow friend, is time to decide, to be or not to be. It is an exam that testing about wherther your wise can conquer over your feeling or vice versa.

p/s: All the best to you, i hope your get a distinction for the exam just like how you have done in your Univerisity Campus.

Part 2 End

To Be or Not to Be part1/2

I just met my dearest friend at last Saturday. I need to wake up at 8pm in the morning which the day i have no need to just because i promise him to eat the tasty "bah kut teh"(pork tea) where near by his housing area.

Eventually, i was able to wake up, went to my girlfriend house and took her to that "far" area.....
He came out with a smiling face. I really cant remember how long we have never seen each other, and feel pleasure to meet him.

Before, he took us to the restaurant, he made a call to someone and say:” dear, I m going to have lunch with them.......". I was stunned at that moment, and asked him after the phone call. You have a new girl friend or this is the one who were separated with you in the beginning of the year? He replied, "yup, she is my existing girl friend and still my girl friend at the moment."

OH MY GOODNESS, HOW CAN IT HAPPEN! May be all of you think that i was too over on the issue. Just make you all clear about what had happen before this.........

The Story started from, once upon a time (4 years ago), a boy (my friend who were really young), and a girl were been together. They went through the "normal process"(beware of this, because the opposite might come) of dating like having lunch together, watching movie and celebrating the girl's birthday romantically. Of course, they didn’t tell their parent about the dating at the first of beginning, until the girl's parent discover them when her mother saw her down from his car in front of the house....... (Background - shockwave appear)

Her mother was so angry about them, because her daughter dates with a guy without “informs" her..... But still gave an option to them. She requires them to take a third party whenever they are dating...... (Here comes the slightly abnormal part)

The poor young couple had to agree with that to show the respect to Elder. Then they might at least be able to date each other. Then situation become funnier, they follow the instruction by taking her younger brother when they were dating. (I wonder is it the Aunty wants her son learn how to hold, hug and kiss a girl in the process of dating, if she did, then just buy some romance DVD will do, and the tactics definitely are much further advance then the young couple.)

As the times and condition goes by, the boy cant really took this. He try to have some romance moment by just take her into the car and go wherever they want to enjoy the time they had. While the car had reached the end of junction which nearby her house, her mother gave call to her lovely daughter by the machine gun tactic (means keep pressing the call button until u hit the target down). Her filial daughter had no choice nut go back to show how filial she is.........

The boy was quite angry with that. He wrote his feeling on msn (facebook was not popular at that era) and tell every parent to stop their authority to allow their children to enjoy a little freedom. (is alright to write in the msn cause normally we don’t add our couple's dad and mom in to our "friend list".) Unexpectedly, the girl's mother view her msn while she was not in front of the computer and read the words "accidentally" (advise: dont write something bad about other even though they might not in ur facebook or other communication tools, because i know there are some corner of the world without privacy from this case.) Eventually, the aunty was frustrated by the words, then "order" her daughter breaks the relationship.

What can a girl who is really "filial" can do in this case. She is just a flower in a warm house. She has no many friends because the aunty stop her to make more friends to avoid crisis happen. Thus, her only rely group is her family which include the aunty, the uncle, her younger brother and elder sister.

I suppose to say the story should end at here. Unfortunately, it didn’t. The story did continue until last Saturday. The boy still keeps in touch with the girl. They were still in the relationship because the boy thought he can persuade her parents in the future. Their dating progress is more on like a meeting. The name of it can be absolutely abnormal dating program. (Short form - AADP) The boy can only meet the girl in her break time between the classes carefully, because her mother takes her in and out to school and might send lunch to her lovely daughter at lunch time. (Such a "great mother" who look over her daughter like a prisoner, but of course slightly more freedom then in jail, i was wonder that why cant her mother just take course and join the US president bodyguard team)

Therefore, no romantic dinner, no movie time, no trip to any place to them and the AADP bring them cross over 4 years.

At the time, both of them have graduated from University and started their career. The boy has become a man which awarded distinction in his academic and get a good tenure with great amount of salary (as a freshgradute) in Loreal. The girl works in an accounting firm as an accountant.

The man think is time to announce their relationship to the aunty and uncle in order to escape from AADP. Therefore, he told her what he will do and forwarded to her house to face them directly.

When he reached her home, he saw the Uncle in front. Suddenly, the Uncle locked the gate when he saw my friend, and added another cruel word to him, don’t touch my daughter, because we are expecting her to be married with a rich guy and yet you are not the one. Then the Uncle just went into the house quickly without looking back at him.

The poor friend had been shocked over the action and words. He really cant believe this is the situation will be after he had paid so much effort to maintain and tolerate with the circumstances, and get the most ridiculous answer in the reality world. (Seriously, i still cant really understand how does an accountant can marry with a rich guy, i suggest that the uncle and aunty at least send her to train and competite in the beauty contest which held by Astro first)

There is no other choice but break the relationship. However, he still can’t release the one he love from his heart. Both of them still keep in touch and meet up as "friend". The last time i heard about was, they are "friend", which can’t be couples anymore. I release my heart although i knew my friend could be terrible sad, but at least he wouldn’t waste his and her time in the future since they have no future.

Therefore, while i heard he called her "dear" in phone, i was thinking that what can he do? Whether he should continue or break it? Finally, i suddently think of the word, "To be or not to be", in this case, it is still a question for him..........

to be continued

Professional Objection

The mentor just "thing" on my head about the question of the professional.

I can really agree that a professional person, organization or company can concern more about their target consumer, and always say yes to them.

However, something happen that just pop up and lead me to the condition......
People just ask an organization to do watever they like just because they are customer, just because they pay, or just because your manager like them, then as employees, we have to say yes in this circumtances.

Then the organization has to work for the particular requirement which may affect the other operation or plan while the employees are exausted for the tiny particular matters.

This reflect that we do anything for the them eventhough it has affected our daily operation and working plan.. But most of the boss like this kind of executive because they can fullfill most of the request of customers which including cleaning, photostating, become assistance of particular big customers...........

I understand that we have to do some such of that work to prove that we can. But the main idea of the passage to just to tell, we have to reject anything operation that didnt regarding to our job scope and some particulat request which has over the limit of rules as well as the way of organization should focus on.

If the employees are busying on the matter that didnt regarding to the final objective, how should we achieve it. It just like a train that heading to it's destination. And the train might be late always cause need to fullfill some "late customer" who alwyas not on time to move their butt to the train, or the train has carry on too much weight which the train actually cant but the captain do it just to "comfort" the passenger.

The train can stil reach the final destination, but it will be one of the latest as compare to the others train who started their journey on the same time. Please tell me, the train that start their engine on time without waiting and carry the managable weight is more professional or another late train?

This is what i can see from England. which is one of the great country of the work. Just because they know when to say yes and no to their customer. So call they are professional.

Therefore, please concern about are u a professional person, in a professional organization or u r just being a rubbish bin that require everybody want and need but losing ur final objective.

Two Apples

Two alliences parties are playing on going drama from a second to another,
MCA has internal fight, PKR's crying sound is enormously better then the governence in the states.

Both of the parties would like to scold, argue and contradict each other, to compare who is the worst in the country.

Sorry to my fellow friends and public, welcome to the reality. This is the situation in our country.

We have no choice just because most of the people are persuiting power in the political field. We have less and less leader who lead our country with morality.

Then, how the country will be?

Since 308 political tsunami happened, we have more choice on buying apple,
An apple seems nice to eat, but worms is digging in, another is an definitely an bad apple from it outlook.Which one will u choice?



My Answer is：Neither