To Be or Not to Be part1/2

I just met my dearest friend at last Saturday. I need to wake up at 8pm in the morning which the day i have no need to just because i promise him to eat the tasty "bah kut teh"(pork tea) where near by his housing area.

Eventually, i was able to wake up, went to my girlfriend house and took her to that "far" area.....
He came out with a smiling face. I really cant remember how long we have never seen each other, and feel pleasure to meet him.

Before, he took us to the restaurant, he made a call to someone and say:” dear, I m going to have lunch with them.......". I was stunned at that moment, and asked him after the phone call. You have a new girl friend or this is the one who were separated with you in the beginning of the year? He replied, "yup, she is my existing girl friend and still my girl friend at the moment."

OH MY GOODNESS, HOW CAN IT HAPPEN! May be all of you think that i was too over on the issue. Just make you all clear about what had happen before this.........

The Story started from, once upon a time (4 years ago), a boy (my friend who were really young), and a girl were been together. They went through the "normal process"(beware of this, because the opposite might come) of dating like having lunch together, watching movie and celebrating the girl's birthday romantically. Of course, they didn’t tell their parent about the dating at the first of beginning, until the girl's parent discover them when her mother saw her down from his car in front of the house....... (Background - shockwave appear)

Her mother was so angry about them, because her daughter dates with a guy without “informs" her..... But still gave an option to them. She requires them to take a third party whenever they are dating...... (Here comes the slightly abnormal part)

The poor young couple had to agree with that to show the respect to Elder. Then they might at least be able to date each other. Then situation become funnier, they follow the instruction by taking her younger brother when they were dating. (I wonder is it the Aunty wants her son learn how to hold, hug and kiss a girl in the process of dating, if she did, then just buy some romance DVD will do, and the tactics definitely are much further advance then the young couple.)

As the times and condition goes by, the boy cant really took this. He try to have some romance moment by just take her into the car and go wherever they want to enjoy the time they had. While the car had reached the end of junction which nearby her house, her mother gave call to her lovely daughter by the machine gun tactic (means keep pressing the call button until u hit the target down). Her filial daughter had no choice nut go back to show how filial she is.........

The boy was quite angry with that. He wrote his feeling on msn (facebook was not popular at that era) and tell every parent to stop their authority to allow their children to enjoy a little freedom. (is alright to write in the msn cause normally we don’t add our couple's dad and mom in to our "friend list".) Unexpectedly, the girl's mother view her msn while she was not in front of the computer and read the words "accidentally" (advise: dont write something bad about other even though they might not in ur facebook or other communication tools, because i know there are some corner of the world without privacy from this case.) Eventually, the aunty was frustrated by the words, then "order" her daughter breaks the relationship.

What can a girl who is really "filial" can do in this case. She is just a flower in a warm house. She has no many friends because the aunty stop her to make more friends to avoid crisis happen. Thus, her only rely group is her family which include the aunty, the uncle, her younger brother and elder sister.

I suppose to say the story should end at here. Unfortunately, it didn’t. The story did continue until last Saturday. The boy still keeps in touch with the girl. They were still in the relationship because the boy thought he can persuade her parents in the future. Their dating progress is more on like a meeting. The name of it can be absolutely abnormal dating program. (Short form - AADP) The boy can only meet the girl in her break time between the classes carefully, because her mother takes her in and out to school and might send lunch to her lovely daughter at lunch time. (Such a "great mother" who look over her daughter like a prisoner, but of course slightly more freedom then in jail, i was wonder that why cant her mother just take course and join the US president bodyguard team)

Therefore, no romantic dinner, no movie time, no trip to any place to them and the AADP bring them cross over 4 years.

At the time, both of them have graduated from University and started their career. The boy has become a man which awarded distinction in his academic and get a good tenure with great amount of salary (as a freshgradute) in Loreal. The girl works in an accounting firm as an accountant.

The man think is time to announce their relationship to the aunty and uncle in order to escape from AADP. Therefore, he told her what he will do and forwarded to her house to face them directly.

When he reached her home, he saw the Uncle in front. Suddenly, the Uncle locked the gate when he saw my friend, and added another cruel word to him, don’t touch my daughter, because we are expecting her to be married with a rich guy and yet you are not the one. Then the Uncle just went into the house quickly without looking back at him.

The poor friend had been shocked over the action and words. He really cant believe this is the situation will be after he had paid so much effort to maintain and tolerate with the circumstances, and get the most ridiculous answer in the reality world. (Seriously, i still cant really understand how does an accountant can marry with a rich guy, i suggest that the uncle and aunty at least send her to train and competite in the beauty contest which held by Astro first)

There is no other choice but break the relationship. However, he still can’t release the one he love from his heart. Both of them still keep in touch and meet up as "friend". The last time i heard about was, they are "friend", which can’t be couples anymore. I release my heart although i knew my friend could be terrible sad, but at least he wouldn’t waste his and her time in the future since they have no future.

Therefore, while i heard he called her "dear" in phone, i was thinking that what can he do? Whether he should continue or break it? Finally, i suddently think of the word, "To be or not to be", in this case, it is still a question for him..........

to be continued